As part of getting to know our “true” selves, one of the exercises in my Unravelling class is writing about our roles in life. How many roles we play, our favorites, least favorites, etc. as well as a role we’d like to play. I call it my fantasy role.
Ever since I was a little girl I’ve always wanted to work at a big newspaper. I thought it would be so exciting to research topics for articles, type them up and generally scurry around the office when a big story hits – like you see on TV. Well perhaps part of that dream came true, but I scurried around in the corporate world instead. Anyway, several years ago when I fell in love with photography again, I have to admit that I’ve fantasized about becoming a photojournalist. Visiting remote places in the world, spending time with people, learning about their culture and their lives, photographing, compiling briefs, so forth and so on.
Then after I thought about it, I had to laugh. Robin, it is what you’re kinda doing in a very small way with your blog. But my fantasy would be on a much larger scale. The ability to help in a bigger way. To bring attention to issues within the world, to have a bigger impact. So for now, I’ll continue with my little blog and put my fantasy out to the universe. I know I don’t have the qualifications of these big time photojournalists, but I’ve got the spirit and the passion behind it and who knows what life will bring? Do you have a fantasy that you’re willing to share?
Thanks for sharing your fantasy frissy. I never knew this about you. It’s good to keep learning new things about the people we love. My fantasy is, I always wanted to be a big time singer! Problem is, I can’t carry a tune. Even when I sing around the house, Shantel will ask me to please stop! MORE GH
Isn’t it amazing how we still learn about each other after all of these years!?! I can hear Shantel now! Ha ha!! Love you MORE!
My fantasy has been similar to yours with wanting to be like Lois Lane or taking photos for National Geographic. Now I’d be happy to write a book that touched other people and made a difference in their lives.
LOVE the Lois Lane part!! Yes, if I help one person I’m pretty happy! Thanks for commenting!
I wouldn’t have known that about you either, Robin, but I can see you becoming a photojournalist…definitely. i wonder if there are community newspapers where you live in your NYC enclave? That would be a great place to start, maybe?
My fantasy? Good question. Just as soon as I get one, especially as it relates to my photography, I get realistic about it. My fantasy right now is to be a good enough wife to help Astrid retire sooner than the 5+ years she’s expecting to still work. We’d like to be retired together before I’m too old to enjoy it! 🙂
Yes, Ginnie there is! And I’ve reached out to one of them. I just have to be careful not to get my schedule too heavy in case my parents need me. Great thoughts! Re: your fanasy – Yeah for partnership!! xo
You and I are so much alike, Robin. It’s wonderful that you are sharing yourself as you peel the layers away to uncover your true passions and talent. Love your soul-searching journey and I love you! Yes, you are touching so many with your blog. I am especially enlightened and enjoying it so much. You’ve brought beauty and dreaming back into my life.
I too, had the same fantasies. I did get to work for several small newspapers as a typesetter, layout artist and proofreader, they were great years. As a kid, I dreamed of photojournalism for National Geographic. I love learning about people and their cultures and religions. I always loved the close-ups of peoples expressions, you could see right to their soul. Their hardships, their pride, so very much. Thank you so much for bringing memories, joy and inspiration in my life.
Beautiful comments Lisa and I so appreciate them!! xo
I wanted to be a professionel roller skater (dancing).
Oh you could do that, easily!!!! Love it! and YOU!
Awesome clouds!!
Thanks Sal! Those are Virginia clouds, ha!
And – everything big starts small. Your little blog may become a part of something bigger..that then becomes something bigger after that. Keep on pursuing your dream!
Oh, Marcie…thank you! You are so right! xo